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01/20/18 - NNHS Newsletter - Where Are You?

“No one compares to you, but there's no you, except in my dreams tonight.”

- Lana Del Rey
(b. 21 June 1985)

Dear Friends and Schoolmates,

   This is my very favorite song by my very favorite singer, Frank Sinatra.

BONUS - Where Are You - Frank Sinatra, 1957


"Where Are You?" is a popular song composed by Jimmy McHugh, with lyrics by Harold Adamson. The song was written for the 1937 film Top of the Town and was originally performed by Gertrude Niesen.[1] "Where Are You?" has been recorded by many performers.


   Happy Birthday today to Ware Morrison ('63) of VA!

   Happy Birthday tomorrow to Carol Collier Sparrow ('63) of VA!

   Happy Birthday this week to:

22 -  Bruce Sims ('56) of VA AND Carolyn Clark Wilt ('57) AND Sandra Sherman Filippo ('57) AND   the late Norman Dick ('60) (deceased 26 Nov 2015) AND Rochelle Spooner ('63) of NY;

23 -  Chandler Nelms (Hampton HS - '63) of MD;

25 -  Jeannie Collier Fitzgerald ('65) of VA;

26 -  Sharon Weaver Knowles ('63) of VA AND     Charis Bean Duke (Governor Thomas Johnson HS, MD - '85) of PA!

   Many Happy Returns to You All! 


January 20, 1887 - The U.S. Senate approved an agreement to lease Pearl Harbor in Hawaii as a naval base.

January 20, 1941 - A German officer was murdered in Bucharest, Romania, sparking a rebellion and pogrom by the Iron Guard, killing 125 Jews and 30 soldiers.

January 20, 1942 - At the Wannsee Conference held in the Berlin suburb of Wannsee, senior Nazi German officials discussed the implementation of the "Final Solution to the Jewish Question".

January 20, 1944 - The British RAF dropped 2,300 tons of bombs on Berlin.

January 20, 1945 - Hungary agreed to an armistice with the Allies.

January 20, 1945 - Germany began the evacuation of 1.8 million people from East Prussia, a task which would take nearly two months.


Saturday, January 20, 1968 - Basketball player and sportscaster Nick Anderson was born Nelison Anderson in Chicago, Illinois.

Saturday, January 20, 1968 - Cricketer Junior Murray was born Junior Randalph (sic) Murray in St. George's, Grenada.

From My Friend, Daniel, of UT - 01/19/15:

“May God give us courage to choose the right, ability to appreciate the good things of life, and power faithfully to serve Him and our fellow men.”

- David O. McKay
(08 Sept 1873 - 18 Jan 1970)

    Thanks so much, Daniel!

From Joan Lauterbach Krause ('60) of VA - 01/20/18:
   Thank you, Joan!

  From The Best All-Around Boy in the Class of 1962, Bobby Hilling of VA - 01/08/18 (but only just discovered!) :

Hi Carol...I hope this is you..........

Thank you so very much posting the information about our brother Billy......maybe you could add this also.....he graduated in 1946  and he is a USAF veteran.......and my brother Charlie ('56 - of FL) was a member of the US ARMY National Guard (if you have something for that)......

and one question...the flag for my brother Harry (President of the Student Body of June 1944) that U.S. ARMY?...I cannot make out what it says (don't be laughing about my eyesight ..:-)..he is a Retired Lt Col......

Thank you again for this and all that you do for us TYPHOONS....Love, Bobby.....and this has special meaning today....TYPHOONS FOREVER.....

   Oh, thank you so much, Bobby! I'm embarrassed beyond words to have just found this (there's a long and exciting story for the reason behind that, which we'll save for another time). I've made the necessary updates at last to your brother's Memorial Edition.

   I've never separated the National Guard and Reserve units from the full-time insignias, and after a dozen years it's far too late now, so I just gave Charlie an Army seal. Harry's flag is indeed an Army flag, and Billy's is an Air Force.

   I would be one of the very last people on earth to make fun of your vision, Sweetie! I was born hideously myopic, and have been getting steadily worse with the passage of time. I still marvel that I am able to function at all. The last time I had my eyes checked my vision was 20/800 + with severe astigmatism. Yet I plod on.....  

  From Elizabeth Tedder Nunnally ('65 / '68) of VA - 01/17/18:

  Thanks, Elizabeth!

From - 01/12/18 - "The 4 Powerful Ways to Change a Bad Habit":

The 4 Powerful Ways to Change a Bad Habit

What feelings truly push people outside their comfort zone?
Jim Rohn, November 4, 2014

No one understands as I do the inherent difficulty in changing old and persistent habits. But habits begin to change when we begin to change our perceptions.

Most of us don’t experience a cataclysmic transformation. No, for most of us change comes as an evolutionary process of almost imperceptible changes. We just keep nudging ourselves in the right direction, forming one or two better habits.

But what really makes us sit up and take notice? What really causes us to shed our old habits and take action?

Disgust with ourselves.
Making a
decision when our backs are to the wall.
Desire that won’t be extinguished.
Resolve to do or die. Emotions are the most powerful forces inside us. Under the power of emotions, human beings can perform the most heroic (as well as barbaric) acts. To a great degree, civilization itself can be defined as the intelligent channeling of human emotion. Emotions are fuel and the mind is the pilot, which together propel the ship of civilized progress.

In this excerpt from 7 Strategies for Wealth & Happiness, Jim Rohn describes four basic emotions that can trigger the most incredible activity. The day that you channel these emotions to fuel your desire is the day you’ll turn your life around.

1. Disgust
One does not usually equate the word “disgust” with positive action. And yet properly channeled, disgust can change a person’s life. The person who feels disgusted has reached a point of no return. He or she is ready to throw down the gauntlet at life and say, “I’ve had it!” That’s what I said after many humiliating experiences. At age 25, I said, “I don’t want to live like this anymore. I’ve had it with being broke. I’ve had it with being embarrassed, and I’ve had it with lying.”

Yes, productive feelings of disgust come when a person says, “Enough is enough.”

They’ve had it with mediocrity. They’ve had it with those awful sick feelings of fear, pain and humiliation. They decide they are not going to live like this anymore. Call it what you will, the “I’ve had it” day, the “never again” day, the “enough’s enough” day. Whatever you call it, it’s powerful! There is nothing so life-changing as gut-wrenching disgust!

2. Decision
Most of us need to be pushed to the wall to make decisions. And once we reach this point, we have to deal with the conflicting emotions that come with making them. We have reached a fork in the road. Now this fork can be a two-prong, three-prong or even a four-prong fork. No wonder that decision-making can create knots in stomachs, keep us awake in the middle of the night or make us break out in a cold sweat.

Making life-changing decisions can be likened to internal civil war. Conflicting armies of emotions, each with its own arsenal of reasons, battle each other for supremacy of our minds. And our resulting decisions, whether bold or timid, well thought out or impulsive, can either set the course of action or blind it. I don’t have much advice to give you about decision-making except this:

Whatever you do, don’t camp at the fork in the road. Decide. It’s far better to make a wrong decision than to not make one at all. Each of us must confront our emotional turmoil and sort out our feelings.

3. Desire
How does one gain desire? I don’t think I can answer this directly because there are many ways. But I do know two things about desire:

a. It comes from the inside, not the outside.
b. It can be triggered by outside forces.

Almost anything can trigger desire. It’s a matter of timing as much as preparation. It might be a song that tugs at the heart. It might be a memorable sermon. It might be a movie, a conversation with a friend, a confrontation with the enemy or a bitter experience. Even a book or an article such as this one can trigger the inner mechanism that will make some people say, “I want it now!”

Therefore, while searching for your “hot button” of pure, raw desire, welcome into your life each positive experience. Don’t erect a wall to protect you from experiencing life. The same wall that keeps out your disappointment also keeps out the sunlight of enriching experiences. So let life touch you. The next touch could be the one that turns your life around.

4. Resolve
Resolve says, “I will.” These two words are among the most potent in the English language. I will. Benjamin Disraeli, the great British statesman, once said, “Nothing can resist a human will that will stake even its existence on the extent of its purpose.” In other words, when someone resolves to “do or die,” nothing can stop him.

The mountain climber says, “I will climb the mountain. They’ve told me it’s too high, it’s too far, it’s too steep, it’s too rocky, it’s too difficult. But it’s my mountain. I will climb it. You’ll soon see me waving from the top or you’ll never see me, because unless I reach the peak, I’m not coming back.” Who can argue with such resolve?

When confronted with such iron-willed determination, I can see Time, Fate and Circumstance calling a hasty conference and deciding, “We might as well let him have his dream. He’s said he’s going to get there or die trying.”

The best definition for “resolve” I’ve ever heard came from a schoolgirl in Foster City, California. Many years ago, I was lecturing about success to a group of bright kids at a junior high school. I asked, “Who can tell me what ‘resolve’ means?” Several hands went up, and I did get some pretty good definitions. But the last was the best. A shy girl from the back of the room got up and said with quiet intensity, “I think resolve means promising yourself you will never give up.” That’s it! That’s the best definition I’ve ever heard: Promise yourself you’ll never give up.

Think about it! How long should a baby try to learn how to walk? How long would you give the average baby before you say, “That’s it, you’ve had your chance”? You say that’s crazy? Of course it is. Any mother would say, “My baby is going to keep trying until he learns how to walk!” No wonder everyone walks.

There is a vital lesson in this. Ask yourself, “How long am I going to work to make my dreams come true?” I suggest you answer, “As long as it takes.” That’s what these four emotions are all about.

“...(that) any general system of conveying passengers would ... go at a velocity exceeding ten miles an hour, or thereabouts, is extremely improbable. ”

- Thomas Tredgold
22 Aug 1788 - 28 Jan 1829)

 From Bill Hobbs ('66) of Northern VA - 01/04/18 - "THIS AND THAT (#8 in a Series of 8)":

  SO TRUE! Thanks, Billy! These have been so sadly funny!  


Where Are You, Crochet Patterns - "The following list is in alphabetical order by Category of where the patterns can be found. For items where the picture doesn’t match the category, it means there are patterns inside the category that have a mix of projects..."


Where Are You, Knitting Patterns - "When you’re looking for inspiration for your next project, there’s nothing better than browsing free knitting patterns. We love experimentation, and there are textures and colors galore here. Sweaters, accessories, clothes for kids and toys: there’s something for beginners to experts. Perfect for gift ideas."


Where Are You, Recipes - "Dinner’s Met its Match! Just add your ingredients and Supercook instantly finds matching recipes from the most popular cooking websites! To get started, choose your ingredients from the categories on the left. Matching recipes that you can make will automatically appear and update."


From - 01/19/18:

I was sitting at the counter of a restaurant when a gentleman sat in the seat beside me. I watched as he ordered a cup of coffee and put about fifteen spoonful's of sugar in it.

He took a sip without stirring it. I remarked, "You didn't stir your coffee."

He said, "I know, I don't like it sweet."

1. Every Tuesday, 7:30 AM - Male grads meet at Angelo's Restaurant on J. Clyde Morris Boulevard for breakfast and camaraderie.

2. Wednesday, March 14, 2018 -The NNHS Class of June 1942 meets at noon on the second Wednesday of every other month for a Dutch treat lunch at the James River Country Club, 1500 Country Club Road. PLEASE JOIN THEM. Give or take a few years makes no difference. Good conversation, food and atmosphere. For details, call Jennings Bryan at 803-7701 for

PRAYER ROLL: - updated 01/12/18

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   Y'all take good care of each other! TYPHOONS FOREVER! We'll Always Have Buckroe!

                          Love to all, Carol





Carol Buckley Harty
7020 Lure Court
Fayetteville, NC 28311-9309

"Never underestimate
the power of a drop
in the bucket."


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Where Are You?

Lyrics by Harold Adamson (10 Dec 1906 – 17 Aug 1980), 1937

Music by Jimmy McHugh (10 July 1894 – 23 May 1969), 1937

Recorded by Frank Sinatra (12 Dec 1915 – 14 May 1998), 1957

Where are you?
Where have you gone without me?
I thought you cared about me.
Where are you?
Where's my heart?
Where is the dream we started?
I can't believe we're parted.
Where are you?
When we said good-bye, love,
What had we to gain?
When I gave you my love
Was it all in vain?
All life through
Must I go on pretending?
Where is my happy ending?
Where are you?
When we said good-bye, love,
What had we to gain?
When I gave you my love
Was it all in vain?
All life through
Must I go on pretending?
Where is that happy ending?
Where are you?
Where are you?


Where Are You?" lyrics courtesy of - 05/14/08

"Where Are You?" Image courtesy of - 01/22/18 (sic)

Nerve Heart Divider Line clip art courtesy of - 01/20/06

Animated Tiny Birthday Cake clip art courtesy of Sarah Puckett Kressaty ('65) of VA - 08/31/05
Thanks, Sarah Sugah!

Animated Military Flags clip art courtesy of - 06/18/03    

Hampton High School's Crab clip art courtesy of - 10/02/05
Replaced courtesy of - 02/17/09

Governor Thomas Johnson High School's (MD) Logo courtesy of - 06/16/08 

Army Seal clip art courtesy of Al Farber ('64) of GA - 05/24/06 (still missing...)
Thanks, Al!
Replaced by Norm Covert ('61) of MD - 02/09/09
Thanks, Norm!

Bronze Star clip art courtesy of - 05/09/08

Purple Heart image courtesy of Joe Madagan ('57) of FL - 06/04/04
Thanks, Joe!

Winking Smiley courtesy of My Friend, Jennifer, of NC - 03/12/17
Thanks, Jennifer!

Animated Laughing Frog courtesy of Joyce Lawrence Cahoon of VA - 05/31/08
Thanks, Joyce!

Animated Laughing Cat courtesy of Joyce Lawrence Cahoon ('65) of VA - 07/29/08
Thanks, Joyce!

Navy Seal clip art courtesy of - 05/29/06

Jeffrey Holman's Image "A Drop in the Bucket" courtesy of - 05/23/16

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